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Many definitions of self-esteem: Tolerance and respect for others Accept responsibility for actions Have integrity Take pride in accomplishments Self-motivated Take risks Capable of handling criticism

Definitions (cont.): Loving and lovable Seek the challenge and stimulation of worthwhile and demanding goals Take command and control of their lives Life affirming, constructive, responsible, and trustworthy NOT just feeling good about self “The experience of being capable of meeting life’s challenges and being worthy of happiness” (NASE)

Arguments Just feeling good about self without foundation (pseudo-self esteem) leads to egotism, arrogance, conceit, narcissism, a sense of superiority, even violence

Low self esteem: Focus on trying to prove themselves or impress others Use others for their own gain Lack confidence in themselves Have doubts about their worth and acceptability Reluctant to take risks or expose themselves to failure Blame others for their shortcomings rather than take responsibility

Problems associated with low self-esteem Violence Alcoholism Drug abuse Eating disorder School dropout Teen pregnancy Suicide Low academic achievement ONLY ONE OF SEVERAL CONTRIBUTING FACTORS